Follow my footsteps and end up in hell

So I am worried. I am worried about multiple people. My little brother almost got suspended for racial things. Like the fact that he allowed his friend to call him a "jewbitch". I am really mad and want to beat down that friend. Andrew though is who I am most worried about. I know I shouldn't care and I should want him to burn in hell but I don't I care a lot about him still and I always will. He was like an older brother to me for like 10 years and thta doens't just get thrown away. I've known him longer then I have known my own brothers. You see the thing is that when I see him, he looks like hell and I think his girlfriend is seriously hurting him when it comes to hus health. I am worried that he is going to hurt himself. I want to help him. Part of me feels that this is what he deserves and the other part wants to help him. Gosh dang it. i hate this feeling. I will always care about him. In my eyes he made a really bad choice and it is something I will always blame him for, BUT, he isn't a bad person. He is someone who messed up, but that mad thing doesn't form who he is. I mean seriously I have a ticket on my permanent record saying I got so drunk I got hospitalized for 36 hours, but that doesn't define who I am. i am not the alcoholic teenager that goes out partying everyweekend (though some people assume that when they hear about that fact of my life). Likewise, he raped me but that doesn't mean he would do it again, it doesn't mean he's ever done it to someone else, it doesn't make him a rapist. It makes him someone who messed up. He'll have to figure that out but in the mean time I want to help him and get him back to the point where we can be friends. I am so afraid that he is going to fail at PCC. I want to take it upon myself to make sure he at least doesn't fail psych. I mean that is MY school. I know how things run, I can help him. The real question though is....am I ready to help him?